It occurs to me that many on here do not see others as 'people', but more as objects to live out their personal fantasies through. I can assure you we have no such predilections in our personalities(afaict). I'm 30 White M coupled with a 40 Black F and we don't know what we want just yet. *Maybe* too wishy-washy for most, idk, so be forewarned. I'm almost entirely certain that she NEEDS this in order to learn how to 'worry' less in general about life in all honesty. So I am in fact a big proponent of us getting together with others to do at least SOMETHING. She needs that connection with others. She's far too closed off. (She definitely wants a couple most of all, then maybe another man, and MAYBE just a woman(I think she does but won't fully admit it just yet)). Me: Experienced. (I'll just say 'intelligent'. Idc to try to prove it here lol.) She: Shy, has only ever had sex with me, and curious to try some new things. If you assume me 'intelligent', then assume that if I tell you I think you sound like exactly what we're looking for, perhaps be interested in that. (No expectations of anyone until we get pictures up of course lol) Both bi-curious at the moment, but more in a logical sense coupled with an inability to have ever, properly asked ourselves the question as to what our sexual orientations are. We honestly have no idea if we would enjoy such a thing in real life or if it is just the fantasy of freedom such acts provide that we are truly excited by.*** (But pretty indifferent really, possibly just turned on by the idea at being 'capable' of considering the prospect in an exhibitionist sense, idk) Idk wtf this whole 'realness' epidemic is. I am 100% honest and have no time to waste for bullshitting others. We don't know how far we're going yet. We are extremely excited at the prospect. I'm hoping we let go and move forward :D The main point is, yes, this is all honest intention at the moment. Treat it as such. We're both super turned on by the idea of getting crazy as can be, we're just working up to the action if we can lol. Will do our absolute BEST not to mislead or play email tag. I pride myself on being a serious individual. I do not play dishonestly. (If I hotlist you it means I wish to at least show you to my woman in-case she is interested.) Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.